A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their
eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning
the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for
office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it
in the cupboard. ! His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen
totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle
fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to
be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the
hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified
how she was going to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the
dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling".
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive
behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back
to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away,
this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy
from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can
look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be
much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand
miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies,
jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you
will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:
This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time
in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a
relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this
way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

After reading a few post I made previously, I still believe my English sux hell. LOLx..

Feelin so sleepy with a little bit of frustration in the hot weather. Frustrating cause it's HOT!!!! T.T

Sweating.. *Faintx*

Being a pig right now.. Sleep and eat... Diet shall resume at NIGHT and tomorrow. xD

Had lots of fun yesterday and took photos which are load on Sam's blog ^^

Went to watch the movie "I Now Pronounce You Chuck And Larry (Comedy)" with Sam, Mary, Lin Lin, Fishball, Ah Beng, Alvin.K and his girlfriend Michelle.

After movie, Weirong got to meet his friends so he went off first and Alvin continues his date with Michelle while the rest of us decides what to do next.

Suggested Coffee Club due to it's New York Cheese Cake. They seems to have relocated to the ground floor instead of being inside Harvey Normans. Nice environment with bright colours and comfortable seatings.

Ordered baked spaghetti bolognaise (It doesn't really suit my appetite for the day). After the main course, Lin Lin wants to try her cookie but found a hair in it. o.o

Mary calls for the waiter to for an exchange but it seems that they didn't. Think they couldn't see the hair in it or didn't bother to. In the end we have to play the guessing game and the person on the right of the winner has to take a bit of that cookie. *Yucks* The last loser was Lin Lin~ *lols* Sam got it quite a few times~

After that we ordered the Muddy Mud Pie. The person on both sides of the winner loses a chance to get a bite on the pie. weee.. I had lots of it =x

Lastly when the last piece of 'biscuit" was left, we played the game back to the rule of, "the person on the right of the winner gets to eat the crappy thing". *lols I took the last three pieces. haha~ filled with lots of pepper.

Conclusion: The Muddy Mud Pie is SPICY!!!!

The only place to unleash my anger. But still... I'm boiling deep down.

Totally WRECKED!

*cursing and swearing*

Feelin very vex lately. Anonymous sms-es, letters and calls, mood swings and lethargic. It's driving me crazy.

Someone has been givin out my number to his/her friends or prolly some are playing pranks on me. Have been receiving calls and sms-es from all kinds of people. Chinese and malay. WHO THE HELL IS HE/SHE?!!! Driving me nuts. This person named "Daniel" was the 3rd of the month who has played the same prank =/
_|_ Too much stress for the week. Very annoyed which partly leads to lethargic.

To that faggot who keeps calling me all day: you're rude and I really hate talking to you.
To Daniel: Lame. Owned up who you are. I ain't on the mood for jokes now.

My com has been lagging for that damn fuckin 1 week. Vista really does not suit a basic home user. -.- It's really getting on my nerves. In order to make it more usable for me, I've got to upgrade the RAM or to change the OS. _|_ waste of time and energy AGAIN!

Things has gone so wrong for the whole week. WRECKED!
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Totally have no mood to work till now. This feeling sux. I think I really need to release out all that stress and anger before I start to blow off at any innocent party.

S.O.S

*dying*

I'm so in loveeeeee with the song by N'sync - Gone.

Every song that I like links to someone.. I use to have my Sony Discman with me all the time, playing songs that I like. Things that happened which I couldn't forget links to the song that I've listen to during that time. Each song brings back memories of foolish things that I've done and most of them seems to be sad memories. Teenage years was terrible. I was never a good kid. Very rebellious and "bad".

Things that I've done have been reflected many times.. I feel so bad.. Nothing can ever ease that pain away. The pain of regretting. From the moment when I let out that little bad part of me, I knew one day I'm gonna regret it. I was never wrong in the consequences that I'm about to face and many times I choose to let my feelings do the thinking. In the end I've regretted.. I've broke my principles. Loser.

Every time when I have the flashbacks of these memories it makes me so upset. sighh...

Starting to wonder does he have any link to "only-I-know-who". But the height is really very different but other than that there seems to be similarities.

Heard from cal that his room has been cleared from all the rubbish he has stored. LOlx.. congrats. after 4 yrs.. finally you have that room back to normal again

It was our first time going to the KTV together..
Partyworld Cuppage. Saw a couple of pretty girls with revealing cleavage some innocent, some like trannie and some are hot babe. As for the rest, aver.

I don't think I'll be able to talk so much tomorrow. Seems like the singing session has drained off all my energy. Hungry and sleepy.

nite folks.

Thoughts of going back to Tinybox filled my mind. Jo sms-ed me two days ago about the singing lessons and etc. Decided to go next week and prolly on the Sunday.

Tuesdays - Lantern/Mooncake festival;
Wednesday - badminton
Sunday - Tinybox

I'm so excited about my payday and Saturday!!! My desktop is coming on sat!! =D

Nothing much to blog.. Didn't join the rest for some of the break for the past few days.. kinda weird without lalat, darling and manager. =(

Some updates for the week:

-New Mini Desktop-
I've just signed up the 24 months contract for the SingNet Broadband (SNBB) last Sunday. 6Mbps with free Acer mini PC. Looks kinda cool and hopefully the broadband will be slightly faster than what I expected. For the speed I shall comment it after the installation on the coming Saturday. Gettin excited about it. *grins*

-Blogskin-
Thought of gettin a new blogskin on Monday when Ivy agreed to help me. Forgot about it after dinner. I like my blogskin actually but find that prolly it's time to give it a new look. Ivy did help to create part of the new one but later didn't save the file when she restarts her laptop. =(

-Fasting-
Manager, lalat and darling are on their second day of fasting already. Darling comment that she might have shed a few kilos off her waist. haha.. It looks kinda tough on them =( they all look so pale. But like what darling said, as long as their will is strong no matter how hungry they are, they still can do it. ^^

-Fake scandal-
gosh.. This has been going on for the past 2 weeks. =( It's like really difficult to stop him from disturbing and staring at me. -.- Sam sam, please look after your darling, he seriously needs more care from you. The similar thing about my darling and me is that we couldn't stop laughing or smiling when we are shy. gosh... The worst thing to get rid of was to smile when I'm shy -.-

-Me-
Life has been great for the past 3 months. Although work can be boring but the thought of working with them really makes me happy. It's the fun and laughters we share that becomes the drive/motivation to go to work. Another 3 more months and we have to bid each other goodbyes. Some of them have thoughts of gettin a new job already. Who knows when we'll see each other or being able to work and have fun together again. Times we have shared are like sweet childhood memories. Flash backs like the first day we start introducing ourselves, going out together and joking around, sound of laughters still running and ringing in my mind..

Have been staying at Uncle Jonathan's place for a month now. Spending lots of time with Aunt Eve and her husband - Uncle Edmund - and cousin Ivy. Still like to joke around with each other as usual. ^^

Relationship seems to be out of the question in my mind as for now. Don't hope for much. I'm feeling comfortable and most importantly, happy. As for things between Cal and I, like the old sayings, "If you are fated to be together then you will", this line really suits what I've been thinking about for the past few days.

I was never sure how important I am to him and so I've decided to let time prove it. I wonder what will happen in the future like whether either of us will end up with someone else or the two of us back together again. Tryin not to think so much for now. It might brings back bad memories like why and how we quarrelled and the break up. The way things are going on for now seems to give each of us a little more space or maybe more for him. haa

There are so much more that I'm unable to express by words, be it thoughts or feelings. I was never good at these, not now, maybe not in the future too, but hopefully someday, someone will understand. =p

For the past few days I have been thinking of whether to pursue this matter or not. Well, it does seems like a small one which prolly I couldn't be bothered for the time being. Someone has been spreadin rumours about me and a guy who is unknown to me. I have never even talk to him before! gosh! The guy who has been spreadin this was also saying that I use to like him too!

To the guy:
1. You're too short.
2. You're not my type.
3. You're too childish.
4. You brag too much.
5. You really sucks.
6. Although I am ugly I'd rather die than to even consider likin you.

You're the one who grabbed my hand and not wanting to let go and the one who suddenly kissed me on the cheeks. Do you know how disgustin I felt?

So what if I am ugly and I am judging him? It doesn't gives him a right to do those disgustin things or putting me and someone together and worst of all saying that I like him.

sigh... pretty upset till now... still pondering.

Is it really the time to put an end to all these? I don't think I can take these any more.. Right from the start till now, I've always been very serious about it. It really upsets me when excuses are made or ridiculous answers are give to me repeatedly. Why do I have to be the one who should give in? Since I wasn't "the one" and never will be then prolly I should give up then.. Hope is deadly. It failed me time and time again. I've always tried to escape the clutches of hope but time and time again it catches up with me and devour me totally. =(

What's comin next? Will I be able to face it? Feeling so upset now.

Although it can be lonely but at least.. I don't have to feel so upset over little things like these.
I have no rights, before and after. Does being younger or below 21 means we have to forgive them for their irresponsibility or childishness? Does it mean that I also have to tolerate the insults and humiliations hurled on me?

I really couldn't forgive and forget. Definitely not this one. Why do you have to side her? I am so sure that you know the consequences and you know how I will feel about it. But you choose to hurt me. Why?

sighhh

J O Y C E
-from a French word meaning "joy"
If you think you know me, read my blog and think again.
I'm imperfect and I'm Lovin' It.
I'm the only witness and person who can judge my life.
This is my blog so Click here if you hate it.
I edited the blogskin using Firefox
so if you're viewing it by I.E,
it may look abit weird.

Life is so short...

Always live life to the fullest
to never regret a day in your life

Good days gives you happiness
Bad days gives you experiences

Both are essential to life
******************************

I appreciated all the help,
love, care and concern from
all my love ones and friends..
I thank you all for that and
"I Love You aLL Dearly"

**Life is all about choices..**
I've made them and regretted
sometimes.. Silly isn't it?
Now it's the time to look ahead
to think of the positive side
and make each day better
and brighter
than the day before


**Blog under construction...**

Save the environment
I'm trying too. What about you?
I want to grow taller.
I want to shed off 20kg
No more everyday blues

mY FRienDsteR pRoFiLe

My name is:
Joyce Ang Geok Ling
My Chinese name:
Hong Yuling
Also known as:
Reiko or Joyah
My age:
21
My Horoscope:
Cancer & Leo
My Zodiac:
Tiger


-Her Addiction-
-Hubby - Chen Weirong

-Her Loves-
-Family
-Friends
-Sleep/Napping
-The companion of love ones
-Attention (Majority loves that too right? =p)
-To hang out with my SingTel colleagues
-Sounds from the small water fountain
-STRAWBERRIES!!
-Shopping! I'm a shopaholic =p

Wishes:
-To own an apartment at East Coast
-To start my own business
-Have a career
-Own debut
-Car license
-A car
-My first SGD10,000

-Interest-
-Singing
-Piano
-Personal Grooming
-Kayaking
-Swimming
-Cycling
-Nap
-Nap + Suntan
-Star/Cloud gazing
-Camping

-Describe HER-
-Vainity
-Her bag of cosmetics
-Her long straight hair
-Constant whining about being fat
-Noisy & loud
-Crazy and very emotional
-Shy with strangers
-Petty
-Forgives but cannot forget
-Grumbles and mumbles a lot
-365 days, 7/1 whines non-stop
-Stingy


I've taken a few test and these are the answers
[I wonder if it's true....]:
At your darkest moments, you feel guilty.
At work and school, you do best when you're researching.
When you love someone, you tend to agree with them often.

In friendship, you are considerate and compromising.
Your ideal careers are: business, research, counseling, promotion, and speaking.
You will leave your mark on the world with discoveries, new information, and teaching people to dream.

Never give up in yourself.
Have efficiency in the things you do.
You make your own choices.
If you have to fight for the things you deserve, then do it. If not, who will?
A lot of things starts with, "I wish to do it" or "I don't wish to do it"
What everybody owns now comes out from the one who dares to create,
think and dream.


If you think you know me, read my blog and think again.
I am imperfect.

-Nose Job
-Double Eyelids
-Long Lashes
-Bigger Eyes
-Thinner Lips
-To be skinny/underweight
-To be tall
-Ipod
-Sony Ericsson W910
-More pocket money
-New clothes
-New stiletto heels
-New Guess Bag and wallet
-New cosmetics
-To be pampered

LBedazzled
Dainty
LPristine
LRomance
LMagic
Melanie: CC486
Sassy Shirt: YN438
Slinky Slip: JN312
Sandra Slip: HD430
MICHELLE SLIP: YN439
Davina Slip: CC415

My family
Eldest Sis-Cyndi
Youngest Sis-Agnes
Cousin/Biaomei-Ivy

My Friend of 9 years and the company
Jo

Friends
My Nai-baby
Tania

Lovely Tng's
Ruvyn
Chervyn

Colleagues in SingTel [Telephoney House]
The one who has little lambs - Mary Teo
Little Red Riding Hood - Sam
The adorable - Lin Lin
The red fishball otah - Hong Yuan
The Lovely lady - Eka
The one who loves slapping flies - Lydia
Paparazzi no.2 - Xiu Zhi
Ask her about Korea - Khoon Yi
Mentor Zi Yang

Colleagues in Keppel [ComCentre]
Suriannie
Jasmine

Tortoise
Nicholas, Junyuan

IRC Friends
Shawn
Wee Leong
Alvin
angelgir
Felix
Jennier/iFish
Jing Ai
Anju
Jason
Justin
Bakieee
Lynnette

Friends
Belle

MUSIC SCHOOLS
Tiny Box Music
The Art of Music

The Impressive Singer

Felicia Chin
Patricia Mok
Dasmond Koh
Bryan Wong
Quan Yi Feng
None
None
None
None

Online Shops
Checkout
sweetgift
Fashion
Hello Kitty
Face Up Facet
Dora's Little Hut
Online Boutique - Butik Gue

Renee & Shop
Renee
Reneethy-million

UsefulLinks
Photoshop Tutorial

Interesting Links
Sudoku
Yuan Wei Ren
Rockson
a CUTE GIRL!! - Chloe

The People of Nuffnang
Constance
Judy
My Lacy Closet
The Samsui Lady
Daisy
Belle
Shiya
Simun
Qi
Chai Leng
Queenie

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